A Valentine Tea Party

Valentine Tea Party

 

A Valentine Tea Party

A Valentine’s day tea party can be a great thing to share with close friends, family or a special someone. Whether you want to create a surprise, or plan it together, there are many ways to ‘do’ Valentine’s tea. It doesn’t have to be twee or soppy either – well, unless you want it to be, of course! ‘Romance’ is a word with many different connotations and love takes many forms.

You could have a sophisticated Valentine’s tea with fine foods, flickering candles and Berkline furniture; you can go all out with fluffy cushions and cupcakes And of course, make sure you choose the right tea.

Sophistication and Seduction

If you want to have a Valentine’s tea to charm a new lover or rekindle an old flame, this is the tea party to go for. This one is most certainly a tea-for-two, rather than a friends or family tea. Serve something suave and sophisticated, with plenty of flavor. A classic, single-estate black tea such as a fine Darjeeling or Assam will impress – the tea equivalent of a vintage champagne. Earl Grey could also be a good choice, although be careful, as it’s not to everyone’s taste. Serve it in elegant cups with saucers and a matching teapot.

When it comes to food, keep up the sophistication. A ‘high tea’ with savory foods as well as sweet is a good idea, as it allows you to linger over your food and give it more of a dinner party vibe. Little canapes are a good way to kick off. Food you can easily share would also go down well: how about a fondue or baked Camembert? Then get into the sweet stuff with some gooey, indulgent cakes.

Remember to turn the lights down and light candles around the room (and shut the curtains if it’s light outside!). Keep the colors simple and sensuous, with satin throws and dark table linen. And of course, remember to dress to impress.

Hearts and Flowers

If you want to have a more light-hearted, but still romantic, Valentine’s tea, then you can keep the seduction toned down, but still have plenty of love in the air. This could be a tea for a couple or a small group. A playful type of tea would work well here. The Chinese Rose Pouchong (blend of black tea and rose petals) tastes lovely and looks different. Or try a fruit-flavored black tea: a passion-fruit blend would keep to the theme perfectly.

In terms of food, a mixture of finger foods would work well, giving you the chance to linger for a while, chat and reminisce without having to run back-and-forth to the kitchen. Sandwiches, sausage rolls, slices and cup-cakes are all good, and can be made to individual tastes. The important thing to remember is that the food should reflect you and your guest(s).

Do the same when it comes to decor. You could get out some old photographs and put them on the walls, or make pictures that have some personal meaning. You could also invent some party games that reference with things you’ve done in the past or plans you have for the future. It should all be about having fun and enjoying each others’ company.

Fun and Frolics

This is the one to go for if you want to have a big , boisterous family do or get a large group of friends together. Serve a sweet, milky masala chai to satisfy both children’s and adults’ tastes, and perhaps a delicate white tea for those with more sophisticated palates. Ideally in a pink teapot.

Don’t worry about being cliched, just have fun. With the food, go themed. A shaped template can be used to cut sandwiches and cakes into heart shapes. You can also use icing to decorate cakes along the Valentine’s theme, with lots of pink and hearts. Pretty much anything can be made into a heart with a little imagination.

For decor, get heart-shaped balloons, pink table cloths, and lots of fun party goods like streamers, glitter and paper-chains. If you have children coming, get them involved, or ask adults to all bring a contribution to the decoration. Fun party bags or favors along the theme can also be fun to send people home with. 

 

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This article submitted by Isabella Woods.

Sweethearts Tea Time

Sweethearts Tea Party

 

Sweethearts Tea Party

 

It doesn’t have to be Valentine’s Day to show affection to the one you love. A tea date offers a sweet, old-fashioned setting for sharing sentimental pleasures.

Invite couples of different ages and stages in their relationships. The silver anniversary pair will inspire the twenty-somethings on their third date. The newlyweds will bring back memories to the busy parents. Let everyone know this is an occasion to dress up and wear the jewelry and ties they’ve exchanged over the years.

Set small tables for two around the edges of the room, with a large table for buffet service in the center. Loosely frame each table against the wall with crepe paper or sheer fabric streamers in the form of an arch. For the most flattering effect, arrange soft, indirect lighting that falls on the couples from above. Pink bulbs or shades will cast a rosy glow over the room.

Build a tiered centerpiece for the buffet table. Set a tall, decorative vase in the middle of a large round platter. Fill the vase with vivid flowers and greenery. Surround the base of the vase with mounded fruit in colors that echo those of the flowers. Cut some long tendrils of ivy and put the cut ends into the vase, trailing the length of the stems among the fruit and around the platter.

Drape floor-length tablecloths on the tea tables. You can use sheets in deep floral patterns or shades of  lilac and pink. Lace-trimmed handkerchiefs make pretty napkins, rolled inside napkin rings you can make yourself out of artificial pearls. Chairs should be cushioned for comfort.

Each tea table will have a scented candle in a red glass holder, and a bud vase holding a fresh orchid, rose or peony.  Serve the tea in small pots holding just enough for two people. Offer refreshments that can be shared: small quiches and baguettes that can be cut in half; a bowl of seedless grapes; or chocolate-covered strawberries. Avoid foods that can be messy (dips), loud (celery) or embarrassing (spinach), so that guests can focus on each other, not on feeling self-conscious.

Use soft music to build the sense of romance: try Chopin waltzes, anything by Debussy or Ravel, or elegant jazz standards like Billie Holliday and Duke Ellington. Tea dancing is another lovely tradition for a late afternoon. Play a CD collection of ballroom dances—foxtrots and waltzes are familiar to most dancers—or “slow dance” music from the 1950’s.

Menu:

  • Tea: vanilla-flavored white tea, darjeeling, ceylon, mixed berry
  • Baguettes with tomatoes and melted swiss cheese
  • Salmon quiche, sized for two and scored down the center
  • Black pitted olives and camembert on toast points
  • Cream cheese and raspberry preserves in heart-shaped sandwiches
  • Cranberry scones with orange date spread
  • Seedless grapes
  • Chocolate covered strawberries
  • Cherry tarts with fresh whipped cream

Winter Fantasy Tea Party

Winter Tea Party

 

Winter Tea Party

 

During the long stretch between New Year’s and Valentine’s Day, it can seem like winter will never end. Brighten a cold afternoon with a Winter Fantasy tea party, reminding guests of the beauty of the winter landscape, while you warm them with your hospitality.

Choose invitations with wintry scenes, and ask guests to wear a favorite woolen scarf to the party. Each guest can also contribute a candle to a “fireplace” you’ll build on a tray lined with aluminum foil. Set the tray where you can admire the flames ( at a safe distance from drafts and loose hanging drapery.)

 

Think snow and ice as you plan your decorations: lots of white linen, lace, and china, and all your best silver. Place votive candles on small mirrors down the center of a long table, alternating with cut glass dishes of jewel-toned jellies and jams. Set places for a sit-down formal afternoon tea, giving each guest a napkin tied with an elegant strip of lace. Prepare a place card for individual guests, decorated with snowflake designs or real white feathers. Make cards with the names of each dish and type of tea you are serving.

Spray-paint winter branches white, and stand them around the room in clear glass jars tied with white satin ribbons. Drape white gauze around pictures and windows. Blanket windowsills with more white gauze, nestling pine cones into the folds. Line metal baskets with paper doilies, and fill them with candies wrapped in silver paper.

If you’re lucky enough to have a snowfall after you send out invitations, collect fresh, clean snow and store it in your freezer in plastic bags. You’ll be able to serve authentic snow cones in champagne or wine glasses, drizzling them with berry preserves thinned with ice water. (your guests will love this!)  If snow is not a possibility consider creating “snow balls” out of round scoops of vanilla ice cream rolled in coconut and served on a brilliant silver dish.

Soft classical music will round out the mood. Mozart, Bach, and Handel are always in season. Choir music and English madrigals bring the warm of the human voice into your party.

To break the ice, ask guests to each share a story about a time when they were unusually cold. Make sure the room is warm and cozy, and that everyone’s cup is filled with steaming tea as they remember colder times. Then go around the tables once more, asking each person one thing they like about spring.

 

Management Suggestions:

 

  • Activities will play an important roll in this winter themed teatime.  Consider reading poems about snow or history on winter related customs in a variety of other countries.
  • Place winter related poems on each tea cup and ask your guests to share read their quote out loud to their table mates.
  • Bring in an interesting story teller who can weave a tale of intrigue and suspense.
  • Be sure to give your guests at least 1 block of 20 minutes to chat amongst their table.
  • An “ice-breaker” is a necessity if you seat unacquainted guests at the same table. Consider a simple game which each table can participate in.

Menu Suggestions:

  • Vanilla-scented black tea, ginger tea, smoky formosa oolong
  • Small bacon quiches
  • Pear and Stilton cheese sandwiches
  • Cream cheese and spiced currants on date-nut bread
  • Cinnamon rolls
  • Toasted English muffins with assorted jellies and jams
  • Hot fruit tarts with vanilla ice cream
  • Chocolate torte sprinkled with confectioners sugar
  • Snow cones, if real snow is available

Tea Parties for Grown Ups

HI-Teacups

 

Adults, just as much as children, enjoy a tea party that celebrates any sort of occasion. Serving loose leaf tea is a healthy alternative to any  party option, and with the wide range of teas available, you can incorporate any theme or celebrate any occasion.

From birthdays to anniversaries or other events, tea is a fun, unique, and easy way to create a party.

Use the event (is it a birthday or anniversary?) to determine the best types of tea to serve or, consider hosting a themed party. A theme can be based on anything from a book character to the time of year.

Your party can be as simple or elaborate as you like. Just use your imagination, because you are sure to find a tea that is perfect for the occasion!

 

Activities

 

Depending on the celebration, activities may range from traditional to unusual or even none at all! In the fast-paced world we live in, many adults will welcome the chance to sit and enjoy a hot cup of tea and good conversation. Sometimes people need a reason to relax, and a tea party can be just that.

However, if you want to incorporate activities, these can easily be based on the reason for the gathering. Consult with your local party supply store or do a quick search online.

You can incorporate a “tea twist” on many common games, for example. Bridal and baby shower games can include a tea theme (such as word scrambles or searches), and tea gifts make wonderful party favors for your attendees.

Package loose teas in festive netting and tie it with a beautiful ribbon.

Love bingo?  Try Teago and let your guests learn about tea and its customs while competing in a familiar game.  (www.teago.com)

 

Decorations

 

Decorations will depend on the activity, such as a birthday, anniversary, or baby shower. Create a theme for the party, such as a vacation getaway for an anniversary.

Decorate the room with beach balls, beach towels, and have guests sit in outdoor lounge chairs (or if the weather is nice, take the party outside!). A “famous babies” theme for a baby shower is much more interesting than decorations that are all green and yellow.

Try filling the room with photos of actors who got their start in “pampers.”  The key is to put a twist on your party, and then, of course, offer a twist on the tea you serve such as a fruity tea for the beach party or bubble tea for a baby shower.

 

Music

 

Music selections for your parties can vary greatly. To make it easy on yourself, look for compilation CDs that incorporate the theme.

A CD of soft love songs is a great choice for an anniversary, for example, or an orchestrated mix of lullabies for a baby shower.

Visit your local music retailer for specific suggestions, or do an online search for CDs that pertain to your theme.

 

 

Invitation Ideas

 

Use your theme to determine the types of invitations you will use. Get creative and make your own using specialty papers, or throw in a few loose tealeaves for a scented and enticing invitation (although some people may not appreciate tea leaves falling out, so consider some type of mesh envelope!).

Because you’ll be centering your party on tea, think of using naturally colored invitations and alternative papers.

A traditional birthday invitation may not be quite what you’re looking for, so look into blank cards as well, as you can then add your own words.

 

Foods

 

What should you serve at a tea party? Again, your theme will have a lot to do with the food selections. If your theme is an anniversary beach party, for example, serve exotic fruits and finger sandwiches.

If you are hosting a famous baby tea try collecting and serving favorite recipes of the stars then let your guests vote on the best appetizer.

 

Teas

 

Many parties lend themselves well to lighthearted and fruity teas and tisanes. Consider offering teas that your guests may not encounter otherwise.

This is a fun way to introduce new teas and enjoy the festive atmosphere.

Creativity is a fountain of youth.  Now grab a pencil, jot down your ideas and get started.

 

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A vote suffrage tea party

suffrage-tea

 

Votes For Woman

 

If you are looking for a unique tea party theme consider the topic of women’s suffarage.  This tea party idea combines both history and the chance for smart women to gather together to celebrate and learn!

A suffrage tea party can delve into the history of a women’s right to vote by allowing guests to play games that help them to learn about the past. At the same time, participants can drink various teas and eat some delectable treats. A suffrage tea party is one that all of your female tea party friends will be sure to love!

One great idea for your suffrage tea party is to ask the participants to dress in the clothes of the era. This will make a good conversational piece and will be a great deal of fun. Long, elegant dresses and hats will make your guests feels as if they were in the 1800’s. During the party, trivia games can be played to teach guests about women’s rights.

For example, you can use trivia to show that women were not allowed to become lawyers in the 1800’s, even though they could go all the way through law school with men. And, you can point out that women weren’t allowed to be teachers if they got married, even if they were teachers beforehand. The women at your party will feel educated and empowered by learning such facts.

During your suffrage tea party, you can serve just about any type of tea. If you have a favorite, woman owned tea brand, be sure to serve it and  provide your guests with a sampling of women in tea!  This will be sure to keep them coming back for more along with making conversation easy.

And don’t forget about decorations – they are of utmost importance! Your tables can be set with antique Victorian decorations, such as old china. This will remind your guests of the era that has passed. You can even place pink rose bouquets in the center of each table for a feminine flair.

Tea sandwiches and sweet treats can be served at your suffrage tea party. If your guests are all dressed up, chances are that they won’t want to eat anything sloppy! So why not provide them with cucumber sandwiches on elaborate breads, or broiled fig and Gorgonzola finger sandwiches? You could also serve things like asparagus and Prosciutto tea sandwiches, chicken pate tea sandwiches, or chicken salad tea sandwiches. The more creative you are, the better! And for dessert, you can serve a variety of tasty treats such as fancy sugar cookies, and chocolate truffles.

At the end of your tea party, you can provide your guests with some little treat bags to go home with. Perhaps these bags can contain samples of your tea, along with some swizzle sticks. You can even include a pamphlet about women’s rights! Your tea loving friends will leave your store a little bit smarter and a lot more impressed!